2021.01.21 05:45 bturner534 Girlfriend called me "f*****g disgusting." Did I deserve this?
I (male, late 20s) appreciate your honest feedback on this situation. For context, my girlfriend and I have been together for several years and have a very loving relationship and have recently started living together. My girlfriend is normally very sweet and affectionate, but when she is on her period, stressed, hungry, or tired, she sometimes reveals a moody impatient side.
Anyway, she and I are walking down the street downtown during the day. We had both gotten very little sleep the night before, and we are both hungry, so she is both hungry, tired, and sleep deprived (a bad combo). We are standing on the street waiting to cross (the walk sign is red), when all of a sudden she walks quickly out into the street without saying anything to me right as a truck is making a right turn onto the street. To my horror, it appears as if the truck is about to hit her. Thankfully the truck braked quickly and did not hit her. Honestly she was very lucky because it looked to me like it was going to hit her. She kept power walking across the street the entire time without stopping. I ran after her agitated and started asking her why she did that and did she see that she was almost hit?! I was really shaken up by the whole situation. She blew off my concerns and seemed annoyed that I was even discussing the situation. I persisted, pointing out that she should not have crossed the street so suddenly without a walk sign and without at least telling me that she was about to cross. She got annoyed and told me, without even looking at me, to drop it and that it was not a big deal.
Ok, here is where I messed up. I was so frustrated by the situation and her disregard for the danger and disregard for my concern, that I grabbed her arm to make her stop walking and to turn her around to face me. However, because I was tired and stressed out, I misjudged my force and applied too much pressure. I should not have grabbed her arm as hard as I did. It was totally unintentional. As soon as this happened, she exploded. She yelled at me right there on the side walk, she told me that I was "fucking disgusting"... "pathetic"... "how could I do that"..."no excuse"..."we are done." Then she starts power walking away from me fast. I have to run after her to catch up, but she refuses to stop or slow down and does not look at me. She tells me to get away from her. I keep on following her until we arrive at our destination. Eventually after an hour or so she calms down and stays with me, but is frigid. By the next day she is behaving mostly normally again. I apologize profusely for grabbing her, and she begrudgingly acknowledges that she should not have lunged into the road, but she maintains that I am more at fault than she is.
I am a bit shaken by this event, because she seemed so quick to turn on me, to insult me in a way I have never been insulted, and to walk away from us. She has acted up before while on her period, tired, or hungry. She even admits that she can sometimes "be a bitch." Most of the time she is very sweet. However, this was the worst she has ever treated me, and I am having trouble processing it. In the few months since this happened, she has gently pressured me for marriage. I used to feel ready for marriage, but now I have doubts. I have been very loyal and loving to her, and have supported her both emotionally and financially while she finished her education. I don't think I deserved to be treated in this way. Or maybe I did? What do you guys think? How to move on from this? Thanks.
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To "win" the game you will need to conquer as many planets as possible. But to occupy the destination planet, you'll need to have a significant population on the planet, many guns and a queen.
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***screenshots will come***
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