Go! For people who regret not having an abortion: what could someone have said that would have helped you realize that getting an abortion was best for you? |

For people who regret not having an abortion: what could someone have said that would have helped you realize that getting an abortion was best for you?

2021.03.03 21:34 chappedlipslesbian For people who regret not having an abortion: what could someone have said that would have helped you realize that getting an abortion was best for you?

I hope this is an appropriate place to ask this question, and if not, my apologies. Full disclosure, I’m childfree and am asking this a) out of genuine curiosity, and b) so that I can learn how to best support people so that they don’t become regretful parents (while of course still respecting their boundaries and autonomy to make their own choices).
Is there anything that someone in your life—friend, family member, partner, doctor, therapist, etc.—could have said to you when you were pregnant that would have helped you realize that getting an abortion was the right thing for you to do? If so, what? If not, why?
For example, maybe you would have reconsidered and chosen to abort if someone had: bluntly told you that they thought you were making a bad choice by having a child; detailed the serious physical toll it could take on your body; chosen to limit or cut contact with you because they thought you were being irresponsible; or gently asked you how you were feeling, and whether you wanted to talk about options, rather than jumping straight into congratulations.
I know many people sadly don’t have access to abortion (whether because it’s illegal, expensive, an abusive partner wouldn’t let them, etc.), so this question is specifically for people who would have reasonably been able to obtain an abortion but chose not to, and now regret that decision. Of course destigmatizing abortion would help people see it as more of an acceptable option, but right now I’m specifically asking about what an individual in your life could have said or done that would have changed your mind, not how the world at large could be better (though of course it should be better).
Thank you, and solidarity from the childfree community. A lot of us really feel for you and appreciate your honesty despite the difficulty of your situation.
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2021.03.03 21:34 ClassroomDecorum What's wrong with this image?

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2021.03.03 21:34 Luigi_Is_Dead “Wait, the backbone-less centrist didn’t change anything?”

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2021.03.03 21:34 Marmaladeanddryice Nazeem ruined my friendship

My best friend and I have both been playing Skyrim for years. He just now confessed in the car on the way home from work that he's never once, NOT ONCE, killed Nazeem. I'm contemplating a duck, tuck, and roll.
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2021.03.03 21:34 nbenik RKT... but a flesh wound to my portfolio. Let's do it again tomorrow

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2021.03.03 21:34 jftf-kingmorningstar Yumi definitely wasn't what I was expecting when I saw him I thought he was just gonna be this incredibly skilled and powerful brawler someone who didn't really have a style so much as weaponized violence like berserker from kenichi or Bryan hawk from ippo pire beast mode what about you guys?

Yumi definitely wasn't what I was expecting when I saw him I thought he was just gonna be this incredibly skilled and powerful brawler someone who didn't really have a style so much as weaponized violence like berserker from kenichi or Bryan hawk from ippo pire beast mode what about you guys? submitted by jftf-kingmorningstar to Kengan_Ashura [link] [comments]


2021.03.03 21:34 0takUwU tried the incorrect quotes generator using the full orphan squad, was not dissapointed


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2021.03.03 21:34 No-Plankton-5421 Found on a UK beach (south west) any ideas?

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2021.03.03 21:34 SATorACT Crap canvas is down

Take this time to go and drink a glass of water of something.
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2021.03.03 21:34 Not_an_alt_lol Looking for val2020 or hal19! I’m not really looking for anything else atm, only those halos. I don’t like offering first, so lmk what halos you’re interested in and we can go from there.

Looking for val2020 or hal19! I’m not really looking for anything else atm, only those halos. I don’t like offering first, so lmk what halos you’re interested in and we can go from there. submitted by Not_an_alt_lol to RHhalotrading [link] [comments]


2021.03.03 21:34 MrAmazin151420 [Xbox] [H] PsyEpiCoins [W] To Complete These RP Sets

[Xbox] [H] PsyEpiCoins [W] To Complete These RP Sets
Please check your dusty RP bin for the following items:
(##c) = Avg. price I've paid per item so far
Tactician Excavator (40c)

Striker Sk8ter (70c) Striker Toon Flame (70c) Striker TRI-2050 (80c) FYI... I have some duplicates to swap with you in case I'm breaking up one of your sets. Thanks for looking❣🙏🏼
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2021.03.03 21:34 reddit_feed_bot DailyCaller: How Democrats’ Mail-In Ballot Bill Could Change ID Requirements For Good https://t.co/DGVgDsZ0TW

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2021.03.03 21:34 throwaway-bones What video game scared you as a kid?

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2021.03.03 21:34 backtickbot https://np.reddit.com/r/LanguageTechnology/comments/lx47ms/using_bag_or_words_bigrams_and_tfidf_together/gpky402/

Hi u/edwardsrk. Sure, since you want to "Use bag of words, bigrams and tf-idf together", that this will do the trick for you. Instead of using the "standard" CountVectorizer to create your document-term matrix, using those arguments will allow you to create a document-term matrix in which terms will be words as well as bigrams, so, when you use TfidfTransformer(), it will produce what you want :)
Alternatively, you can just use TfidfVectorizer to obtain the same result without previously using CounterVectorizer, as follows:

from sklearn.feature_extraction.text import TfidfVectorizer ... vectorizer = TfidfVectorizer(analyzer='word', ngram_range=(1, 2)) x = vectorizer.fit_transform(your_training_docs) ... 
And that's it! (Y)
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2021.03.03 21:34 ryanhrt 20m looking for online cougar

Looking for a cougar to chat with and keep my company
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2021.03.03 21:34 soapy_129 canvas issues

WHY IS CANVAS BUGGING OUT i just wanna submit my assignment
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2021.03.03 21:34 Camilacd What do you think of the makeup?

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2021.03.03 21:34 YourMotherIsJoe [XBOX] [H] 600 credits and 1 NCE [W] CC1 Crimson Photons For My Cc1 set >:(

Also looking for any cert burnt Sienna hexed 6/15 on those Have Acro, gk, paragon, scorer, sweeper, turtle already.
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2021.03.03 21:34 ChocoboIsland Friendly, Active players - please add me!

Looking for active players to fill up my friend list. COVID precautions and considerations at the forefront - will do my best!
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2021.03.03 21:34 amorfati21 Self-Portrait in a Green Vest, Eugène Delacroix, Oil on Canvas, 1837

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2021.03.03 21:34 comrad7 The cans of monster are too thin one exploded in my bag and it was not a good time

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2021.03.03 21:34 LiterallyStonkler Permira bids for $3.7bn medical device maker LivaNova

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2021.03.03 21:34 theabdi Does Randy Orton win the World Heavyweight Championship in 2004 if Brock doesn't leave?

I think there's no doubt that Randy Orton was going to be world champion, you could see it during Evolution but does he still win at Summerslam if Brock doesn't leave?
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2021.03.03 21:34 Athhenaa Am I the only one who finds that the dark faction is by far the strongest in the game?😏🧐🤫

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